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20 articles in this category.

  • Designing a Penance for Infidelity to Restore Marital Balance
  • How to Block Mind Reading During Couples Mediation
  • How to Handle the Threat of Divorce Used as a Weapon
  • How to Intervene When One Partner Has Already Emotionally Left
  • How to Prescribe Silence When Couples Talk Too Much
  • How to Stop Pursuer-Distancer Patterns with a Single Directive
  • How to Use a Trial Separation as a Therapeutic Directive
  • Reframing Jealousy as Protective Caring: A Strategic Shift
  • Stopping the Blame Game: Shifting Focus from the Past to the Present Sequence
  • Strategic Mediation: Forcing the Couple to Argue Over a Trivial Object
  • The Courtship Task: Forcing a Distressed Couple to Date Again
  • The Emergency Stabilization Directive for Couples on the Brink
  • The Gratitude Directive: Rebuilding Positive Sentiment with Hostile Couples
  • The Listening Only Task for Defensive Partners
  • The No Sex Directive: Taking the Pressure off Intimacy Problems
  • The Odd Days Even Days Rule for Managing High-Conflict Couples
  • The Veto Power Technique for Gridlocked Financial Decisions
  • Treating an Individual's Problem as a Marital Metaphor
  • Unbalancing a Couple: How and When to Strategically Take Sides
  • Using the Partner as Co-Therapist for the Other Partner's Symptom
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